Free Workshop - Are Boys Aggressive? Are Girls Mean

A FREE workshop by
Julie Ross M.A.

Tuesday, January 23
9 - 10:30 AM

Montclare Children's School
747 Amsterdam Ave, New York, New York 10025

Please contact Danielle Tandet (212-865-4020 ext 7011)
or email
to reserve your spot.
Research indicates that understanding the differences between boys and girls is an important component of good parenting. But what exactly are the real differences between boy behavior and girl behavior? Rather than adopting the "boys will be boys" attitude, parents must become gender sensitive. What behavior is acceptable, what is not? And when boys and girls are aggressive or mean, it's helpful for parents to be fluent in the secret coded language of children and capable of translating behavior into words.

Julie Ross M.A., the Executive Director of Parenting Horizons, Family Therapist, Author, Educator and Expert in early Childhood Development, will lead this exciting and informative workshop. All are welcome!


Julie Ross interviewed in Working Mother Magazine

Working Mother magazine features an interview with Julie Ross, founder of Parenting Horizons, on the four essential parenting tools for keeping the lines of communication open with your teenager. Read the article online here


CBS News

A new survey reveals that girls who regularly watch reality TV expect a higher level of drama and bullying in their daily lives. CBS News correspondent Michelle Miller reports. Then, Erica Hill and Jeff Glor talk to Julie Ross, executive director of Parenting Horizons and author of "How to Hug a Porcupine," about the ways to counter the influences teenage girls are seeing in reality television.

Kirkus Review

Joint Custody With A Jerk
Raising a Child with an Uncooperative Ex
"Great counsel for happily-ever-after a divorce."
 In a revised edition of their 1995 bestseller, parenting expert Ross (How to Hug a Porcupine, 2008, etc.) and Corcoran (The Concise Guide to Magazine Marketing, 2008, etc.) give practical, psychology-based communication strategies for successful co-parenting after divorce, including a new chapter on technology applications. Read full review

KPCC public radio

Is it possible to transform a toxic divorce into a harmonious one? How do you turn the blame and insults into positive productive communication? Listen to the KPCC Public Radio interview as Julie Ross suggests a variety of ways to mitigate the negative effects of infighting on the children of divorced parents.

Faster Times

Twenty-seven years ago, when Julie Ross’s first child was born, she made a discovery: those child-development textbooks she’d read for her master’s in psychology had little to do with diapers and feedings and crying spells. Theory was fine, but now she needed on-the-job training. She looked for a parenting support group, and discovered that the people leading them had the same degree she did.

“So I thought, let me just explore this,” she remembers. What she found was that parenting books and media “experts” were creating a generation of panicked parents uncertain about how to guide their children through the minefield of body image, Internet safety, substance abuse, sex-in addition to the less modern challenges of plain old growing up. “My whole business began with the idea of giving parents practical techniques to fix these things that people are writing about.”

Read the full article here...

Parent Report - Keeping Kids Safe - radio

Have you had the “big talk” with your preteen or even teen?  Most parents dread the idea of sitting down and discussing the three biggies with their adolescents, namely sex, drugs and alcohol.  But we need to do this and do it often in order to keep them safe says Julie Ross, author of How to Hug a Porcupine. Click here to learn more...

Tea and Consent

Many of my students have heard me talk about a short video that accurately and simply explains what "consent" looks and sounds like. Although this is the "clean" version, I still recommend reviewing it yourself before sharing it with your children. That being said, I believe that this short video can be a launching point for a great discussion -- not just about sex but also in the broader sense of setting boundaries (for example, "no means no".)